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07 Dec 2007, 5:51 pm / Other
Well mate,
Cuckoldry is a sexual fetish. It's not a well known one I'll grant you that. But the fetish is growing by the micro second and has featured as the subject of a British Channel 4 documentary amongst many other public media releases.
A cuckold is basically a guy who likes, or even if he does exactly "like" gets turned on by seeing or knowing that his girlfriend or wife is cheating on him! He remains loyal to her and even is denied any sex by her, whilst she gets all the cock she wants!
Wait, it goes deeper than that.
Cuckoldry is very closely tied in to BDSM and especially humiliation fantacies. So the girlfriend cheating isn't the whole picture. It also includes things like:
- Making him watch as she fucks the other guy (or guys!)
-NOT even letting him have the satisfaction of watching his girl get fucked, so that he has no sexual titilation at all. She may describe the sex in detail to him later or call her cuckold mid session with another guy at the other guys house, moaning or telling him down the phone how great it is. It can also be her fucking the other man on the couple's marital bed in their house, but making him wait outside, or worse still, whilst the cuckold is being forced to wax the other man's car or clean his clothes or do any chore for him, or any normal chore around the house.
- Telling him, whilst fucking other men that his cock is too small, too ineffectual for her to use, or that she simply won't fuck him because he isn't good enough (whether that is true or not doesn't matter, it's the insult and embarrassment infront of the other men that counts)
- It even can include, but not always, her other men using the cuckold man either for blow jobs pre and post fucking his girl as well as full blow gay sex (this is also enhanced as a humiliating experience if the cuckold is totally straight!) Sometimes it can be as light as the other men just coming on the cuckold without actual contact with him (especially if the "other men" aren't gay themselves). If the other man really wants no contact with the humiliated cuckold a common fantacy is the cuckold being forced to lick the other man's cum from his girl's pussy, but he is never allowed any personal sexual release.
- It can also closely link with and include other humiliation fantacies, like forced feminization, even public displays of feminization. (Eg the girl takes her cuckold out on the date with the other man as her FEMALE friend, all dressed in women's clothes)
- Taking the above point EVEN further, it goes as far as FORCED sex changes. Making him totally shave, Adding huge tits to her cuckold man through plastic surgery or even in some fantacies, and I guess the occasional sad reality, the removal of the cuckold's balls or cock or both! If his balls are removed the fantacy usually dies as you loose all sexual interest and that's not what cuckolding is about. Removing the cock however, leaves the sexual desire provided by the balls but removes all hope of ever satisfying it.
THAT is what cuckoldry IS about. Desire but not gratification combined with utter and total sole shaking humiliation.
- FAR LESS EXTREME than that though is chastity devices! This is a small, plastic or metal cage placed around the penis which is locked with a padlock. The cage is always too small to allow an errection and also prevents masturbation and, of course, sex, with ANYONE, girlfriend or not. Meanwhile she fucks everyone she wants and makes sure he knows about it.
- Total slavery. The cuckold cleans the house, is the only one who goes to work and earns money and then comes home to wait on his Mistress hand and foot, with no thanks or more commonly , endless insults belittling his manhood.
- Financial cuckoldry includes the man giving his Mistress money. It can go from him buying her new sexy lingerie to wear for a hot date with another man, to him paying for their entire date (whether he's forced to go with her as a feminized man or not) through to him giving her ALL his money and then being allowed a small allowance to live off or nothing at all. Being expected to live with poor food, a poor bed and bare essentails to live on, (MAYBE NOT EVEN IN THE SAME HOUSE but in a grotty flat so she can have all the sex she wants in their marital home and he can have nothing) even though neither she or her other men work, they just live off him.
- It can also include Bondage and beatings for him as a supliment to the other stuff.
Now some of this stuff is SO heavy that probably 90% of it, for 89% of people, is never really acted out, it's just a fantacy, and we all know that fantacies are all the best bits and none of the reality, all the dirty emotions and none of the real, fuck what has my life turned into? emotions.
There are stories of men who followed through with the most extreme stuff but i would say 99.999% of guys who have cuckold fantacies take it only as far as:
- Chastity (some of the time)
- Watching the wife have sex with another guy (a guy who they trust and are friendly with or alternatively neither of them know or ever will know)
- Humiliation (forced feminization just in the privacy of their home and the insults just when the moment takes them in the heat of sexual desire)
- Mild financial cuckoldry (paying for dates and lingerie)
- Slavery (doing the house work as far as he's capable or as far as their's time for just one person to do it, - if he's into that) (most household slavery is periodic only used as part of fantacy play and imagination foreplay)
(A lot of cuckolds just want to be one, they beg their wifes, but their wifes are freeked out by the idea)
But THAT up there, is the FULL answer to the question - What is Cuckoldry? That's the stuff you won't get if you looked it up on wikipedia (it is there on wikipedia by the way, but just says its guys who watch their girl fuck others - when that is really just the tip of the iceburg)
Cuckoldry is growing quickly every year and so are sales of chastity cages! (A vision of the future? All women leaders, all men are just sex slaves? Sound great to me! ish)
Hope I didn't waffle too much.
PS A BULL is the code name for the "other" guy. Wife is called a cuckoldress.
PPS The name comes from cukoo bird which lays it eggs in other birds nests, kicks out that bird's eggs and allows the "other" bird to care for them, then when the chicks are born, kicks out the other bird agressively and takes over.
So after I typed all that. Please let me know what you think. I'd be really interested to know.
CW
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