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Title: The pleasures of slow, hot sex.
Category: horny
Blog Entry: Okay, tell me if I'm strange or not but from listening to other guys talk I guess I'm the odd man out?!? I enjoy sex more when I am the one spending more time pleasuring my partner rather then her partnering me. Especially taking it slow and building it up. Example: I often give my lover a full body massage for an hour before even slightly seducing her. It relaxes her and puts her in the mood and it turns me on and alows me to run my oiled hands all over her body while planning what I'd like to do to her next to please her.

I love orally pleasuring my wife or other female lovers and caressing every inch of her body slowly building her up to a climax or two before I even attempt to place my cock in her. Just feeling her body quiver to my touch and her pelvis thrusting back and forth or up and down with pleasure is even more of a turn on to me then her pleasuring me. Especaillay when I massage her G-Spot, she has such an intense, verbally loud and wet climax that it almost makes me climax at the same time.

And not just that but I have found that when she has climaxed several times during foreplay that she is even more into returning the favor and makes her pleasuring me in the same manner even more intense.

Too many times I have heard guys (relatives, friends co-workers) complaining that they don't get enough sex. Well I hate to brag, but I get laid every weekend several times and sometimes during the week if she's feeling frisky or does not have to work the next day. I think if you guys out there are complaining about not enough nooky- follow my lead and make every day about her and not you- you will be happily rewarded. Not just sex, but everything- bring her flowers just because, make her dinner, help clean up around the place without her asking, compliment her just because and I think you will find she will truly appreciate it. Run her a relaxing hot bubble bath after she's had a hard day with no strings attached. It's the little things and small efforts that mean more to women then anything else. Trust me it works, my wife use to be fairly reserved in bed when we first started dating and now, especially when I take the time to please her first, she really gets into it and will do and let me do almost anything I ask in bed.

Let me know what you folks think- both guys and gals.