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My name is Derek Ward, I am a 26 year old gay, single, masculine white male.
I am 5ft 11, a buck 50, with crew cut brown hair and brown eyes.
I have an athletic, smooth body. 30" waist, and a 41" chest.
I work out 3-4 times a week
My best atributes are my sense of humor, easy-goingness, my down to earth lifestyle, dimples, and my ability to make a friend feel so comfortable and at ease around me. Im intelligent, caring, loving, easy going and alot of fun to be around. I'm a neat freak for the most part. Except when it comes to dishes and laundry. Those two I just don't like doing.
I'm a straight forward, free spirit with many years of experience in the pop sitcom drama "Gays Of Our Lives"
I am what many people call a nomad, living from place to place, moving around with out a real place to call home. It started after I graduated from high school. I desperately look for a place to be accepted, somewhere where I can be myself, that is safe, somewhere I can call home. At this point in my life I haven't really found that yet. I've lived in a few other cities that are more my style: Los Angeles, Miami, Ft. Lauderdale, Chicago. The fast passed life style, the trendy local shops, the beaches, the elite singles clubs. I really like these cities and what the have to offer. You can only feel left out and alone for so long. I guess that being in a big city kind of makes you feel so small and unimportant to the world. Where I come from and everwhere in Michigan, everyone knows everyone. I really don't like that.
A domesticated gay man you ask... is that possible? Your damn right it is! ME
Some guys are so caught up with going to the bars, making sure they are wearing the hottest new clothes. Driving the sexiest new cars. Thats all good and fine but do those guys have lives, it doesn't really seem that way to me. When asked what kind of guy I am.. To be frank, an honest- been there, done that descibes me. I can be a homebody, at the same time a social butterfly. I could actually sit with you for hours and go on about my life and all of my experiences... but what would we have to talk about if and when we actually do meet and become friends. Unless you want to purchase my book - it's sure to be a best seller.
Its hard to find many masculine gay men who like sports, traveling, shopping, working for what they have and want. Its even harder to find masculine gay men who like to camp, hike, bowl, rock climb, bungee jump. These are all great qualities to have in a guy but can they cook, clean, keep a job. hmmm
In all seriousness though people need to look past the photos and realize there is actually a person on the other end of this internet. Just like you he is here for primarily the same reason. Well I mean I know what I am here for. What are you here for? lol Treat someone as you, yourself would want to be treated.
Gay men are everywhere and I really have a problem finding someone that will date me. I seem to have an overabundance of guys who want be with me sexually. Of course for all the wrong reasons. I'm over the anonoamous hookup scene in this sitcom, there has to be a time in your life, when just getting online and having any guy at your whim to be pastionate with gets old. When do you realize that you are being taken advantage of, degraded, and treated like a piece of meat.
It's funny to hear guys say to me " you must have all kinds of guys hitting on you" to be honest... I don't. or this one
"so what hot twink did you fuck last night" dude trust me that if i had some hot twink in my bed last night you can bet hes still in my bed now and I shouldnt be here online. The facts are: yea now and then some dumbass will ask me to have sex, to which I always reply with a "no sorry im not interested" I don't have sex HALF as much as you think I do. I don't like being harrassed about hooking up. If I am attrached to you, you can bet I will initiate a conversation with you. I will not bluntly ask" hey do you want to fuck"- that is not me.
So with all this said please refrain from asking me to hook up with you, you are wasting my time and yours.
Now I'm not totally opposed to having sex, don't get me wrong. I can be a sex-a-holic. I just want it to be with someone I care about, and I know cares about me. Someone who wants to experience in every way the meaning of love. The passion of being held in his arms, the feeling of being safe and knowing that they love you unconditionally.
