DATE: 24 Apr 2007, 12:34 am / MOOD: Dont know
already, i started a new job and made friends with a bounce of girls as usual. But made best of friends with this girl named Kayla, i knew soon as she and I caught eyez their would be some problems. How, okay..... I don't believe in love, i think over-rated, and full of shit, but of course there is always someone or something that can pull you into something you denie any doin wit. Oh my God, she is so hot, preppy, brown eyez, great personality, head on straight, and haves so much in common with me. We talk everyday at work, my drive way, phone for hours about real deep shit. She now knows about my lifestyle, i explain how sex is like exstasy, how i get in a zone of extreme lust, foreplay, and what motivates me to do it and she said because i can't get what i want, how i want is why i can't be with one girl only, she's bites her lips and says wit same words "the right woman is comin' to sweep you off your feet". She knows she is the type of girl that can do it and I even told her you have to confuse my trap (what i put women into to find out do they really really want me or just sex)(basically how they look at me, that's another blog soon) Now the bullshit; she's in love wit a guy that treats her like shit. Marjority she's cryin', complainin', about how he plays wit her heart; she's not into sex and lust such as I, and most important she doesn't date black guys. Now the catch, she looks at me dead in the damn eyez all the time, it seems like she wants me to ask her out or tell her i do have a crush on her, the way she flirts wit me and looks at me tells me she does feel something more than a friend for me, but then she throws me off when she talks about her ex-boyfriend or (ex as she says). I don' want to break up a friendship over feelings, but honestly the more i talk to her, the more i learn about her and vica versa, and the more i want her. She once told me she makes guys come to her because she's shy and i told her that will change. Even people at work think we are dating or assume we are, but we're just friends. I put myself in a tight position. Real talk, not that i'm in love but she could seriously make look at it differently, what the fuck should i do? put a friendship on the line or let it come to me if it comes around?
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DATE: 17 Apr 2007, 9:34 pm / MOOD: Horny
NOT TO SOUND LIKE I KNOW EVERYTHING BUT FELLA'S CHECK THIS OUT. THE MORE WE DO THIS THE LESS HOT CHICKS THAT ARE THE FREAKS WILL TURN TO DIKES
Take time for touch.
Exploring with touch is a subtle and intimate activity. Make a date to do this when there won't be many distractions, and when you don't have to rush off somewhere in half an hour. This is definitely not a "quickie" kind of sex.
Ground yourself.
Think about exploring touch with your partner almost as a kind of meditation. Try to clear your mind before you start this kind of sex. Time it to happen right after you've exercised, or done yoga, or just go for a walk beforehand. Even more than other kinds of sex, if you're distracted both you and your partner will be aware of it, so you want to do your best to feel calm and "grounded".
Make your partner comfortable.
Start off with a hot bath, give them some time to themselves (if that's hard to come by in your house), whatever is comforting and relaxing for them. If they are living with physical pain make sure they get into a comfortable position. You don't have to do this on a bed, although that might be best for some people. You can do it on a mat on the floor, or on a comfortable chair. Use pillows and blankets to get your partner as comfortable as they can be.
Set the mood.
Make the lighting soft, make sure the room temperature is comfortable (not too hot, and not too cold), put on some music that won't be too distracting (probably avoid music with lyrics). The goal is to create an atmosphere that will take you both to a deeper level of relaxation, but not distract either of you from experiencing what is happening between you.
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Suggest that your partner close their eyes.
Exploring sexual touch is a unique experience because in some ways it is an intense solitary sexual experience that you do together. You want to try and be free of any self-consciousness. Some people ask the partner being touched to wear a blindfold, or just keep their eyes closed. You may find this frees you up to move and touch in ways that might feel awkward if you were being watched.
Take time to take in your partner's entire body.
If you don't have impaired vision, look at your partners body as they are lying there. Start with their feet, and slowly work your way up the body, just with your eyes. Don't do this with a critical eye, or even with a goal in mind, just let your eyes wander slowly up your partner's body, much in the way you might take in a huge canvas in an art gallery.
Talk to your partner and tell them about a few parts of their body you love.
Start by saying "I love the way…" or "I can't stop looking at…" Maybe it's their elbow, or their bum, or their neck. This is only a time for positivity, so focus on the things that are attracting you in the moment, or have always turned you on. If your eyes want to linger back to one part, keep them moving up the body until you've got to the top of their head.
Begin touching your partner.
You can start on any part of the body. But start with the smallest amount of touch you can do while actually making skin to skin contact. Consider this to be the tactile version of a whisper. Try to keep this going for a while, playing with touching your partner in the quietest and most subtle way you can.
Pay close attention.
Notice both your partner's reactions to your touch and how it feels to you. Pay attention to how it feels for them: are they making noises, watch for changes in their facial features, notice how their skin changes beneath your touch. Pay attention to how it feels for you: notice the difference in how their body feels beneath your touch: parts of their body will be fleshy, bony, muscular, notice how some of their skin is smooth, some bumpy, where there are scars.
Touch with different parts of your body.
You might want to start with the tips of your fingers, or the back of your hand, or the side of your wrist. Notice how touching your partner with different parts of your body feels different. Pay attention to their reaction. Touching them with your fingertips might feel a bit rough compared to touching them with the side of your hand.
Experiment with different kinds of touch.
You can draw one finger slowly along your partner's thigh, or let the back of your hand trail along their belly. You can tap, rub, scratch, and tickle. Your touch can be firm and commanding, or it can follow the lines and curves of your partner's body without any input from you at all.
Play with the intensity of the touch.
Switch back and forth between firm and vigorous touch to soft and gentle touch. Avoid any quick changes in how you are touching. Try to make any transitions slowly so that you're partner isn't even aware of them.
Add more touch.
If you've started with your fingers or one hand, use your other hand, or gently use your leg or a foot to press against a different part of your partner's body. There isn't one way to do this, but increase the kinds of touching you are doing.
Tips:
Your energy level is important for touching. Don't try to have this kind of sex when you're tired or when you are too hyper.
Exploring sexual touch isn't about orgasm, it is about exploration. Often an orgasm may happen, but this isn't the goal. Focus your mind on the task at hand (pardon the pun) and not on where it is going to end.
It may intensify the experience for you if you include imagery. As you are touching your partner imagine actual warm energy flowing out of your body and into your partner's body via the
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