This is all so exciting.I have a question. My friends boyfriend has a real sexual issue and is on these sites day and night and never wants sex. I am wondering if that is why? Do you think it is? He has some perversion for looking but can't get it up with real women? He never wants sex and she is beautiful, many men want her so that is not the problem. I wouldn't waste my time with a loser like that. What do you think?